Sunday, 26 August 2012

Friends Vs. Baby

I was a typical 20 year old Girl, I would party a few times a month, go shopping all the time and work hard to pay for it all.

At the end of April 2011 I missed my period!

In absolute shock I went to the supermarket and got a pregnancy test.

I was pregnant and we had only been trying for a month!

Then Came the fun part, detoxing myself out of my party lifestyle because I was now responsible for a little peanut.

Shortly after the detox, It would seem that my "friends" had taken a detox of me.

I would message them trying to catch up, go out for lunch or even just go catch a movie and to my surprise I'd get no reply.

A few of my closer friends stood by me but the rest are now history.

What makes being pregnant so intimidating? What is it about a baby that makes people think you are suddenly unable to hold a normal conversation?

I lost a lot of people I thought I was close to over 9 months but I have also made a few new closer friends.

My Son means more to me than anyone else in the world and if I could do it all again I would, My family comes first and if you are a close enough friend to me I will do anything for you!



  1. It's amazing, isn't it?
    I hardly drank before falling preg, and all our friends knew we were trying but I've still lost alot of friends.
    It really shows you who the supportive ones are!

  2. It's sad how friends can "ACT" like total bff's and then turn there back in a split of a sec. :( It's no fun! But it sure shows you who your true friends are!


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